Stuff I wish someone told me
Guides sorted by how much you already know. Start at the top if you’re new.
Newcomer
How it all works, what it costs, and how not to get burned.
- First time on a cam site? Here’s how it actually works Tokens, tips, tip menus, private shows, spy shows and cam2cam explained, plus the etiquette nobody tells you and which site to start on. 7 min · Updated 26 September 2026
- How to keep your porn habit private What incognito mode really hides, how to keep adult sites off your bank statement and synced devices, and the scams to ignore. A plain-English checklist. 9 min · Updated 26 September 2026
Regular
Paying less and finding better sites.
- What an AI girlfriend really costs per month Subscription prices, token packs and the costs AI companion apps don’t put on the pricing page, using Candy.ai’s published prices as a worked example. 6 min · Updated 26 September 2026
- What cam tokens really cost, and who gets the money Token and credit prices on Chaturbate, MyFreeCams, Stripchat and LiveJasmin, what a private show actually costs, and why buying in bulk means more of your money reaches the performer. 8 min · Updated 26 September 2026
- How to spot fake profiles on hookup sites Bots, scammers and “virtual profiles” explained: the red flags, a two-minute check before you meet anyone, and which hookup sites are the most honest about it. 7 min · Updated 26 September 2026
Veteran
The fine print: data, laws and the business behind it.